Books that touched me.

I hope you have read this and this.

The past fifteen days had seen me go through a lot of emotions, just because of two books I read. If you doubt that books can have such an impact, ask me…I am totally in tune with the emotions raging through the book.  Yes, I am talking about Shantaram by Gregory David Roberts and Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini.

Read Shantaram’s story and review by Smitha….here.

Shantaram was intriguing, interesting and made the inner me feel happy, sad, angry, desperate, choked with tears, so touchy, romantic – it was a helluva lot of emotions to handle through the many pages of the book….

– First of all, I liked the spirit with which he learnt Marathi and Hindi…its amazing for a foreigner to feel so much at home, in Bombay.

– I was happy that Lin stayed in the slum next to the World Trade Center – even though he cringed at first, he learnt to live there and where he touched many people’s lives as a Medicine Man…I use this term because he was no doctor himself.  How each and every person’s life in the slum is interlocked with that of the others is an amazing eye-opener to me. The simple judgments by the Zophad basti’s leader on a few occasions tell about the simple yet profound life in the slum, which we avoid like hell.

– I was sad when Lin tries to deal with the death of Khader and the truths which materialise after that. It’s terrible to know that your whole life has been planned by someone else.

Also its saddening to know that when Karla understands Lin perfectly and has a lot of fondness for him, it’s not love, as Lin wanted it to be. Lin is a convict, yes, but that doesn’t make him less human.

I was shocked to know that both Karla and Khader perfectly knew the time he was in Arthur Road Prison, and allowed him to be there, just to finish a matter of their importance. The father’s love Lin saw reflected in Khader’s eyes…..the love which Lin felt during the wonderful times with Karla…..seem to have no consequence, when they allowed Lin to suffer. I felt so bad. The days spent in the prison by Lin….OMG – totally devastated me.

And its only when he forgives both Karla and Khader, he gets his peace of mind and there by, I felt in peace. I’ve always thought it very difficult to forgive, when ppl so close to you, try to hurt you or ignore that you are hurting. But to do that….that forgiveness, is certainly a great thing – a lesson to learn for me.

– I laughed with Vikram, Didier and the rest !!! I loved the play of words by Karla !!! The bonding between Lin and Abdullah was fantastic !!!

– I almost cried when Lin did the turkey, when he had to leave off his addiction to dope.

– I adored the strong man Lin, who came back from the war-wrecked Afghanistan and who stood for Abdullah during their Mafia war !!!

– The final pages of the story ends in the Zophad basti, where Lin feels like himself !!!! Isnt it an irony ??? He has money, has Mafia influence, has a lot of friends – but finds PEACE in that basti.  It’s the simplicity of life, which we need to come to terms with and thats what we’ll love forever.

I highly recommend this book…..don’t be scared off by the volume of this book….every page will keep u hooked to it. 🙂

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I finished reading Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini in just one day….Because I just couldn’t put the book down. Such simple writing, yet profoundly wise on many things.  Pl read the story here.

The amazing way the truth hits you finally to explain the bonding between Amir and Hassan….OMG !!!

The boy who never stood up for anything in life….Amir….I’ve never sympathised with anyone who cannot stand up for himself, for his ideals, for his words…but for the first time, I understood whats it like to be in their shoes. It doesn’t mean its right for me…I just understand thats all.

The cleft-lipped Hassan…the true and loyal friend….who is able to love Amir even after all those happenings in his life.

Oh those horrible Aseef and his friends….I am still quivering at the shameful incident in the dark alley, when Hassan runs for the Kite, so that Amir can win the competition !!!  I feel sorry for that little boy Hassan….I cried for him….I was angry with Amir…I wanted to punish that Aseef and his frnds….I wanted to hug Hassan, for such an awful experience.

It’s strange that in this life, whatever you don’t want might sometimes come back to you in double dose.  How much ever Amir tried to forget the incident of Hassan’s abuse by Aseef, he is unable to. He tries to stay away from him…but his heart doesn’t find peace in those things.  Its only finally, when he stands up to the abuse of Sohrab, against the same Aseef, does he find release to his pent-up emotions !!! Amir didn’t want Hassan then….but waited patiently to take Sohrab back with him.

That line by Rahim Khan, which called out to Amir….”Theres a way to be good”…..I prayed and prayed for him to take that way to goodness.

Among all these, I am torn at the war-wrecked Kabul. I’ve read more abt it in the other book by the same author, but those visions seems to torment me totally – how there’s no value for human life ??? Is the power to rule and run a country, more important than human lives ???? Massacre of human lives is the route to power ???? It saddens me all the more, to know more abt the Russian Invasion of Afghanistan and how the Taliban treated the land and the people later !!!

Read this book !!! Its brilliant narrative keeps you going on and on… 🙂

Click…Click…

Thursday Challenge is really becoming a Challenge to me…because the themes are getting repeated and its a great challenge to me, to take pictures of different things, which will suit this topic.

See, its Technology again this week….so, here goes my entry. 🙂

Clicking the Clickers....

From the oldest with the film rolls inside to the bulky digital ones…cameras are always a part of my life.. 😉 😉

Can u guess whats the other one ???? 😉

Oh..its only a car drive… ;) ;)

You all know that I am crazy about this song….Nenjukkul Peithidum Mamazhai….

So, I keep playing this song in the car… 🙂 🙂

The initial music of the song…. S listens quietly.
Nenjukkul Paeithidum MaamazhaiNeerukkul Mulkidum Thaamarai

Sarrendru Maaruthu Vaanilai

Pennae Un Mel Pizhai…

Nillaamal Veesidum Peralai

Nenjukkul Ninthidum Tharaghai

Ponvannam Sudiya Kaarighai

Pennae Nee Kaanchanai…

Hoo Shanthi Shanthi Hoo Shanthi

En Uyirai Uyirai Nee Yenthi

Yehn Sendraai Sendraai Ennai Thaandi

Eni Nee Than Enthan Anthaathi..

Nenjukkul Paeithidum Maamazhai
Neerukkul Mulkidum Thaamarai
Sarrendru Maaruthu Vaanizhai
Pennae Un Mel Pizhai…

You know who has acted in this movie ??? Whaat ??? (loudly) Sameera Reddy, huh ??? Hows she ??? Good huh ???Arrrreeee…look at that guy…how he is speeding…he would have hit someone…

Girls what do u want for dinner tonight ???

U know ??? I never like Surya…Vijai is OK…

Girls : Dad, keep quiet na…amma’s listening to this song…

S : What ???? U listening….ha ha ha ha ha ha….***My rolling eyes arent helping either*****

Music in-between the paras… S is divinely quiet, which gives me hope to listen to the next para properly.
Yetho Ondru, Ennai IrkkaMookkin Nooni, Marmam Serkka

Kalla Thanam Yethum Illa, Punnagaiyo Bogham villa

Nee Nindra Idam Endraal, Kilai Yeri Poghatho

Nee Sellum Vazhiyellam, Pani Katti Aaghatho

Ennodu Vaa, Veedu Varaikkum

En Veetai Paar, Ennai Pidikkum!

Ival Yaaro Yaaro Theriyaathae

Ival Pinnal Nenjai Poghathae

Iru Pooiyo Maeiyo Theriyaathae

Ival Pinnal Nenjai Poghathae… (Poghaathae…)

Nenjukkul Paeithidum Maamazhai
Neerukkul Mulkidum Thaamarai
Sarrendru Maaruthu Vaanizhai
Pennae Un Mel Pizhai… Hoho
Nillaamal Veesidum Peralai
Nenjukkul Ninthidum Tharaghai
Ponvannam Sudiya Kaarighai
Pennae Nee Kaanchanai…

So, whats news from ur amma and appa ???Hey, guess what I had for lunch ??? **Gives a big descript of his wonderful lunch, while I am seething with anger**

Why this non-stop talking, when I want to listen to the lyrics ????

He knows it very well, that I love the song for its lyrics.

And he keeps quiet when, plain music is going on…

Certainly knows how to bug me…

He is mad, I tell you….  😡 😡

and he thinks I am mad…. 😡 😡

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S : (Exactly at a four road junction) Tell me fast, should I turn left or right ???

Me : (Suddenly looks up from my mobile, to see where we are) Ahem…Right !!!

S : No, I think we shld take left !!!

Me : Right !!!

S : Left is right !!! 😉

Me : Oh, then why do u ask me, huh ???? 😡

S : Chumma, what are u doing, meddling with ur mobile ???

Girls : Oh, be quiet, you cartoon characters !!!

S and Me :   🙄  Cartoon Characters  🙄 🙄

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Edited to add :

BTW, let this madness, happiness, fun, joy, pictures, blogging, love — continue forever, while I celebrate posting my 250th post here. 🙂 🙂  Thank you ppl, for all the support. 🙂


Age is no bar for learning

Read this at Aaroo’s !!!!  Isn’t it so sweet ???? I loved this post. And I wanted to write something in the comment….then realised its better to post the thought. So, here it is.

My daughter, Sh, created a Gmail Account for my amma, about 6 months back. She taught her patti, to login, check the inbox and to send mails.

My amma, patiently took notes, as if it was some CA class going on…never feeling inhibited at learning from her grandchild. Hugs to you, amma. 🙂

Then it started. What ??? The phone calls. Every week, any time, my amma logs into her computer and her account, she’ll have a doubt and she never hesitated to ask me or my sister to clarify them.

Sometimes, it’ll be like “How should I add a new contact ??” “Where are the old contacts saved??” “Gmail is not opening…what could be the problem??” “Some virus message is coming..what does it mean ???” …. Many more like this…I was happy and amazed at her childlike quality to know more and learn all that is to do with mastering this art of sending mails.

Then she wanted to know how to send pictures and how to open the ones send by others… 🙂 🙂

She doesn’t have a FB account yet, but I’ll not be surprised if she gets one soon. 😉 😉

She loves using the Gmail’s tamizh typing feature and all her mails to the family members are in tamizh.  Now a days, she doesn’t call us, first thing in the morning, rather she logs in to mail a wish. 🙂  And I am so proud of her. 🙂

Now, the WWW doesn’t scare her, rather the web is under control… 😉 😉

The Cloudy Day Story…

The wonderful Nature never ceases to amaze me. Here’s proof. Looking at the black clouds from my balcony, how can I resist my hands reaching for my camera ???

But, the effort was worth it. See for yourself :

The first sighting of the clouds, from the balcony...

When they moved further near me….

Little bit nearer...

Now, above my head… 😉

Exactly above me...I am excited...waiting for the raindrops...

And then it poured and poured, I couldnt put my camera out of the balcony and click a few pics…but managed to click this later…

The Wet place around....

You know which song we were singing then ???  Yeah, u guessed it right…its this one…

Yesterday’s Rangoli for YOU !!!

Did you know that yesterday was Dev Anand’s birthday ????? Now, even I didnt know about that…you see, I am not a great fan of this actor. But certainly the songs of his movies were such a great hit and the ladies in his movies were rocking beautiful and so lovely to look at. 🙂

Just had the lazy Sunday opportunity to catch with Rangoli in DD, after  so many weeks of missing it.  So, here are the songs, which came on Rangoli, now in my page, all for you – You see…I feel so good to share my happiness here, with you all.

So, enjoy the songs and add more, if you think of any good one. 😉

Abhi na jaon chod kar

Aankhon hi aankhon mein ishara ho gaya

Dil pukare…aa re aa re

Tere mere sapne ab ek rang hai

This is one wonderful song, which is so close to my heart for the lyrics….esp the one in bold….such fantastic words…I just love it. 🙂  Actually, I love all the songs from this movie..GUIDE. 🙂

tere mere sapane, ab yek rang hain
jahaa bhee le jaaye raahe, hum sang hain

mere tere dil kaa, tay thaa yek din milanaa
jaise bahaar aane par, tay hain fool kaa khilanaa
o mere jeewan saathee.. ..

tere dukh ab mere, mere sukh ab tere
tere ye do nainaa, chaand aaur suraj mere
o mere jeewan saathee.. ..

laakh manaa le duniyaa, saath naa ye chhootegaa
aa ke mere haathon me, haath naa ye chhootegaa
o mere jeewan saathee.. ..

Dheere dheere chal chaand gagan mein

Tujhe jeevan ki dor se

Distance Vs Love !!!

That was Piyu’s version.

Now, read mine – finally you’ll understand a universal truth. 🙂 😉

When S is on tour

7am – Good Morning call – talks to all of us (the three girls) to wish us a good day ahead.

8am – Girls are off to school

9am – Calls again – What breakfast you ate ??? I ate idly / dosa…  Did u make sambar ??? Keep some for me, OK ???? The hotel sambar is not at all good… 😛 😛

10.30am – Calls yet again – What u doing ??? Are u blogging ??? Writing a post ??? Why dont u write abt me for a change ??? 😉   I ask him, where are you ???? And he answers sheepishly, I am waiting to see Business Client. I cut the line, stating, pl take care of your office work. 😉

1 pm – WOW !! Do u remember this hotel, which we visited during that trip in that year ???? Yeah, the same one…I had an awesome lunch there….so, what are u eating for lunch ????

2.30pm – Hey, you are not sleeping na ???? Just thot will call u once… 🙄 ONCE 🙄  You’ve already called me 4 times today…. 🙄

4pm – Have the girls come back from school ??? So, what happened today…give the phone to them…I’ll talk to them. Oh, OK…

7pm – What ??? You made pasta for dinner ???? Why dont u make it when I am there at home ??? Becos you dont like it so much. Thats not the point…this weekend, you better make pasta for me…Oh, Ok….

8pm – Hey, why dont u watch Star World ??? Your fav show is coming – Koffee with Karan !! Really, but that must be repeat episodes…I’ve already watched them all. No, you watch na…its interesting…today its Gowri Khan and Suzanne !!!!

9pm – Are the girls still studying ???? Have you locked the doors ???? Have you switched on the A/c ???? My God, Man, give me a break…. 😉 😉

10.30pm – Thot I’ll wish you Gnite…I am sleepless in my tour… 😉 😉

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Now, S is very much in Town.

The whole morning is so quiet – the girls getting ready for school – S deep into the newspaper drinking his chai and I am busy making breakfast.

I suddenly remembered to ask something to S…When I call him, he gives a blank look and says “Everything after the paper….SSShhhh….”

Then S is on the phone all the time, whenever I come to ask him something. “SSShhh….”  “SSShhh….”  “SSShhh….”   for everything I ask….then looking at my forlorn face, he smiles and says “Later….”

S gets ready for office….has his breakfast in a hurry….didnt even bother to ask if I ate my breakfast….and didnt even find out what I wanted to talk with him….HHHmmmmpppffff……

On the way to office, he calls me….apppa, I am all smiles as I pick up the call. “Uma, you just go to the bank and do this and that and this”….GGGrrrrr…..And I’ll call you later, I am getting late for my meeting. I am like…GGGrrrr……

I send a SMS after finishing the bank work and all….no response.

He calls exactly 5 mins after I dozed off in the afternoon….How does he know the time of my afternoon nap ???? 👿 😡  The moment he realises that he has woken me up, he says sorry and cuts the line.

No evening calls.

He comes home tired and straight away, switches on the TV – There is no life without cricket you see !!!  I try to talk to him, but all I get is a Hmmmm…..I know he has not listened to a word of what I said. 😡

Then he is so tired, that he knocks off to sleep.  So, no time to listen to what I wanted to say !!!! 😡 😡

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Before you all come up with different versions to support S, let me share a story I read at Paulo Coelho’s blog, which is very apt for this situation.

A master asked his disciples:
‘Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?’

the disciples thought for a while, and one of them said
‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’
‘But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you? ‘Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?’
The disciples gave him some other answers but none satisfied the master.

Finally he explained:
‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.’

Then the master asked:
‘What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small…’
And he finally said:
‘When they love each other even more, what happens?
‘They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love.
‘Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.’

So, here is my explanation, to my situation :

When the distance is more, the love grows stronger and fonder. Every minute we are reminded of our spouse and we miss them. The fact that they are not within the meeting distance, makes the frequency of calls more. 😉 🙂

But being in the same city, there is this feeling which the distance has over-ridden and the heart is happy to be nearer. Then words dont matter….one heart understands the other, perfectly. 🙂

Its FUN !!!

FUN (Festival, Fair, Carnival, Party, Playground, Dancing, Laughing,…)

Laughter, Dancing…

Rangoli competition during Sankranthi

Festival of colors and light

Festival of lights

This week’s Thursday Challenge is so much FUN !!! Yeah, thats the theme – FUN (Festival, Fair, Carnival, Party, Playground, Dancing, Laughing,…) !!!